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Victory In Stedfastness...

Hello Friends Hebrews 12 New King James Version (NKJV) The Race of Faith 12 Therefore we also, since we are surrounded by so great a cloud of witnesses, let us lay aside every weight, and the sin which so easily ensnares us, and let us run with endurance the race that is set before us, 2 looking unto Jesus, the [a]author and [b]finisher of our faith, who for the joy that was set before Him endured the cross, despising the shame, and has sat down at the right hand of the throne of God. Life is hard. The challenges and tests we faced can be so emotionally and spiritually exhausting. Especially; our walk in christianity. The enemy is consistently testing us even to our breaking points. One day you are empowered and ready to face any challenge and others you just want to curl up under the covers and cry all day. You know the bible speaks often about seasons; the bible also states that there is a time and place for everything.  Ecclesiastes 3   King James Version (KJV)3   To ev

Getting thru discouragement

Friends, It has been a difficult few weeks. It seems as though every war on the face of the nation was happening in my mind and in the four corners of bedroom especially at night. When all is still and I have no other choice but to think. Oh I cried, I was so hurt, I was so disappointed. Standing on the hope that I always blog to you all about. Slowly; that hope felt as though it was fading and the more I vented to my dear pal; the more deeply vested my pain became. The things I so love to do I felt distancing and I was becoming disconnected. Pulling away from things and people because of the familiar feeling hurt. Bad enough if you hurting but why hurt more if in some way you can avoid it. Sometimes; if you step away and look back you can see things clearly, and sometimes you start to see who is truly a friend or foe. Sometimes; the people who are knitted in your inner circle that claim so much to love you instead of encouraging you; they find themselves conjuring up manufacture

Just say NO thank you.

Friends, One of the most difficult things; I am learning is just saying No. Believe me as simple as it sounds at times it may be very difficult to just say it.  I have heard No so many times, and each time causing disappointment. I think somehow; all my negative interactions that resulted in someone telling me no made me so numb that it became hard for me to do so. Even if that was truly what needed to be said. In lieu I developed an harmful attitude that for me to say no was to hurt others and that was an assurance that I didn't care. Folks that is far from the truth. When needed take a deep breath and say no its about time you take care of you. Have we just taught ourselves that saying no to others is simply, insensitive, in-compassionate and a blatant disregard for someone's esteem? So what ever should we do? Should we continue accepting things we cannot afford to do, certain things that makes us uncomfortable, things that we cannot deliver positive results with;

Homosexuality. What every christian should do?

Hey Friends I am hoping to carefully, and compassionately express this topic and although I won't delve too deep into this matter. I have had some experiences that makes it important enough to want to share. In christianity we know that God is displease with the act of homosexuality and every christian has in one way and the other made reference to Sodom and Gomorrah and how it was destroyed.  The Bible does state. Just incase you never knew Leviticus 18 v 22 “Do not practice homosexuality, having sex with another man as with a woman. It is a detestable sin.23 “A man must not defile himself by having sex with an animal. And a woman must not offer herself to a male animal to have intercourse with it. This is a perverse act.24 “Do not defile yourselves in any of these ways, for the people I am driving out before you have defiled themselves in all these ways. 25 Because the entire land has become defiled, I am punishing the people who live there. I will cause the land to vom

The Irrevocable Bond - Let someone in its ok!

Hi Friends First, Thank you for all the support you have shown, your encouraging emails and comments. I hope that this new year, this new day brings you Joy, peace, happiness, wealth and success in your endeavors. Let's get to this matter..... As Mentioned in prior blogs; I express the caution and causation one has to take with whom you let enter into your life. I received lots of emails regarding relationships your questions and comments have been so insightful. In my adolescence to young adult years; I had develop a mentality to depend only on myself. Trust no one. This was unhealthy. This attitude and behavior was stemmed from lack of maturity and choice of trusting the wrong people with the inner most important aspects of my life. When you make the wrong choice of trusting the wrong people the results are devastating. I carried this behavior in my life for a very long time. I am paying for that majorly today. Although, I have made some massive headway.  I've los